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Don't Be a Meathead


I totally missed it. I had been so engrossed in my own agenda that I was completely blind to the obvious situation unfolding before my eyes. For days, I had been looking forward to this moment, and it was finally upon me. Meatballs!  

I know, it sounds childish, but I had prepared homemade meatballs a few nights before, just the way I like them. I carefully selected the mixture of meats, handmade breadcrumbs, all the right spices, and the perfect size for slow cooking. That morning, I prepared the sauce and put it all in the crockpot to slow cook all day while at the office. About 3:00 in the afternoon, while in a meeting, I started daydreaming about meatballs and couldn't wait to get home.  

Walking into the house a few hours later, I could smell what was coming. Completely ignoring Louie, our 15-year-old golden, I went into the kitchen and started stirring the sauce and, of course, tasting it. Louie sauntered over as he always does when he smells food and looked at me. For the next few minutes, I kind of just zoned out, lost in my own pride and desire, staring gleefully into the crockpot and preparing the pasta I would shortly devour. Then I heard it. 

The sound of water hitting the floor is unmistakable. When that water comes out of your beloved dog, it's jarring. I completely forgot to let Louie out! He had been trying to tell me he had business to take care of, but I was so lost in my own agenda, I didn't even see him, and I paid the price.  

"You can make many plans, but the Lord's purpose will prevail." (Proverbs 19:21)

 

When all we focus on is our own agendas and ignore the needs of others around us, we're gonna have a mess on our hands. That's especially true in our lives when it's God we are ignoring. 

I often sit in meetings where I watch people's personal agendas trump what's best for the team. They get so caught up in how they want the story to go, they completely ignore, or worse, outrightly dismiss the needs and opinions of others around them. That deteriorates trust, team, and compromises results.

In my life, I can look back at so many times I got my head wrapped so tightly around the meatballs that I ignored the people closest to me and hurt them in the process. When I realized it...well, too late. This meathead was mopping up another mess.  

Don't get so caught up in what's in it for you or your own desires in the moment. You can make as many plans as you want, but if the Lord isn't in them, you better get some paper towels ready. Put the calling of God and the needs of others ahead of your own desires. If your personal agenda trumps personal relationships or God’s purpose, you'll be eating those meatballs alone. Don't be a meathead. 


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